bodkerlo47

@bodkerlo47 (104)

United States • Age 46

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yesterday my boyfriends said to me...its over..what should i do...

Angelinka @Angelinka (1410) • Italy 9 Feb 07

well,3 years we live togther..hes got very strong character and personality....yesterday we went out...i was sad,i didnt wanted to go out...he was angree with me and said that i am sad all the time everyday...maybe its...

need advise now

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bodkerlo47 It sounds like he has found someone else. It's time to move on. Do you have a job or any income? Will your family take you in? Have you met any friends? If you do have income, get a apartment. If your family will let you in, then go to them. If you have...

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Who's in Charge at your House? Husband? Wife? Kids?

trouble4u2avoid @trouble4u2avoid (2915) • United States 8 Feb 07

My husband and I can never agree who the boss is. I feel I am in charge of the house because I keep it running.(raising kids, bills, laundry, cookig, etc) My husband argues that he is in charge because without his paycheck there...

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bodkerlo47 I think the husband and wife should be equal. Be able to sit down and agree on what needs to be done. It's not suppose to be a competition and who's in charge of who. Your the parents, your both in charge. I don't think kids need to be bosses. Like you...

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Ex-girlfriend haunting my dad...

mummiahmayin @mummiahmayin (8) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

My dad suffered a stroke out of a very bad fight with her ex-girlfriend. During the times that he was in the hospital, she seldom visited and when she did, she stayed for so little time that I can't even remember the color of her...

legal terms

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bodkerlo47 Get your dad to give you power of attorney over him and his belongings. If he want do that. Since his memory is going, you can get a doctor to say that he cannot make right decisions and get power of attorney. You need to act fast before she gets her hands...

9 Feb 07

help! my nanny spanks my litle girl!

joshdale08 @joshdale08 (2320) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

last night, out of the blue, my 4-yr old girl told me that her nanny spanks and pinches her and she said it's when she's being bad. at first, i didn't believe her coz this girl of mine likes to fabricate stories. but my older boys...

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bodkerlo47 It is wrong. It's child abuse. I wouldn't care if she was my sister, I would probably choke the life out of her. That is why I will never send any of my kids to a daycare or babysitter. You can't trust them and they are raising your children the way they...

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What would you do if your family trys to control your life?

justagurl @justagurl (42) • United States 9 Feb 07

My mother and my sister have never ever been suportive of anything I do in my life! They don't like the relationship I am in, they have tried everything to get me to leave him and move back in with my mom. The person I am with...

family drama

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bodkerlo47 You're just going to have to do what you want to do. Don't worry about what your family says. They obivously have issues. If they don't want to talk to you, then fine. Don't let it bother you and don't show them it bothers you. Maybe they will finally get...

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Why do some men feel they are the "Boss"?

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 9 Feb 07

Every so often my husband will try to act as if he is the "boss". As an independant woman I let him know that I answer to myself only. Nobody tells me what to do. Ask me and I will consider it. If I do not want to do...

boss

men

relationships

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bodkerlo47 Preach on sister! I agree with you totally. Some men think a marriage license is a ownership agreement or something. Which it's not just men, some women think like that too. Everyone should be equal and no one has the right to tell the other person what to...

9 Feb 07

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Do you like the snow and why?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 8 Feb 07

I love the snow, particularly watching it fall and the sound of it crunching under your feet when you walk. However I must say today was the first time I realised why so many people don't like it. I'm watching it get deeper...

life

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bodkerlo47 I love it. I love to play in it. I guess the main reason why I love it so much is that we don't get any. Once in a blue moon. It stinks too. I would like some snow for Christmas, but it never happens. I probably wouldn't like it if I had to deal with it...

8 Feb 07

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Fast food worker doesn't wash hands do you eat or leave?

Justme2007 @Justme2007 (1848) • United States 8 Feb 07

Say you see a person cooking hamburgers or making a sandwich and they sneeze and continue making your food do you say something or take the food anyway? What if they go to the bathroom while you are in there and walk out without...

food

germs

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bodkerlo47 I would leave. I try not to eat out that much for that main reason. The other reason being, it's all fatening. I worked at Burger King when I was a teen and let me tell you, teenagers don't care. I had a co-worker throw a frozed hamburger patty at me and I...

8 Feb 07

Next week (2.14.07) episode

4monsters4me @4monsters4me (2569) • United States 7 Feb 07

Did anyone see the previews for next weeks Valentine's episode. I am so excited. They showed Booth and Sully talking about Bones and Booth said he would not help Sully get her in bed. Sully questioned him about whether or not...

bones

tv show

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bodkerlo47 Yeah I know. Do you think they will ever be a couple? Do you think they are trying to cut Booth out and replace him with this new FBI agent? I really don't like him that well and the show is going to go down hill if he replaces Booth.

8 Feb 07

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Why can some wives stand the beatings of their husbands?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

I've never laid hands on my wife not only because I believe it's wrong and should not be done but I know that she is the type of a woman who will surely strike back and who knows what will happen next. But I know of a couple in...

wife beaters

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bodkerlo47 My mother and all four of her children were abused and beat by my father. She was married to him for 46 years. He beat us if he was in a bad mood or just because. My mom come from a very poor family of ten children, her being the oldest. Most of the time...

8 Feb 07

My parents won't stop smoking around son with respitory problems!

KodiakMom @KodiakMom (5) • United States 7 Feb 07

My son is a little over a year old, since he was born he has struggled with RSV, Pneumonia (6 times), 8 ear infections, a 12 week oral thrush battle and various viral infections. My parents are both smokers and I have requested...

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bodkerlo47 You have already asked them nicely not to smoke around your child. Now it's time to get very firm and possibly mean. If it was me, I would take my child home and wouldn't come back until they promised me they will never smoke around him. They can go outside...

8 Feb 07

I hate it when my boyfriend makes comments on how good other girls look!

candiec2005 @candiec2005 (828) • United States 7 Feb 07

I don't like it when my boyfriend makes comments on how other girls look, like if they're cute or hot or whatever. I don't say anything because I know he loves me and he's so good to me and well, I haven't been with one guy who...

girls

guys

relationships

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bodkerlo47 You need to tell him how it makes you feel. If he doesn't respect that, then you may need to re-evaluate your relationship. That's not right. I have never had a boyfriend do that and trust me, I have had alot of them and most of them were losers. If he...

8 Feb 07

What is your earliest memory?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 7 Feb 07

I read somewhere, that no one really remembers anything until they are at least 5 years old! But I don't think that is true. My first memory was when I was just 18 months old! Not a very nice one, - I will spare you the gory...

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bodkerlo47 I really don't remember how old I was, but I do remember I was in diapers. My family went to a beach and my mom sat me by the water. The tide was coming in and the water was getting higher and higher on me. I don't know what my family was doing. I remember...

8 Feb 07

How do you do your laundry?

pebbles_cubbie @pebbles_cubbie (3789) • United States 8 Feb 07

Do you go to a laundry mat? Do you have a washer and dryer at home? or do you do it the old fashioned way and wash them in a sink or tub at home? the laundry mat is getting pretty expensive for me. I live in a small apartment...

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bodkerlo47 I think it's cheaper to buy a house or trailer. Your throwing your money away with renting. You will never own it and you will never stop paying rent until you die. If you own something, at least your putting your money into something that you will have...

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Many say i am not important for anybody around me.. it really hurts me!

archiee @archiee (322) • India 7 Feb 07

i think that i am not important for anyone. no one actually need me. many say that i bore them, and they can't find their precious time for me to waste on me. they think that i am a idiot who helps anyone without asking for return...

important

love

respect

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bodkerlo47 I don't know why people are like that. I have that attitude too. I help people when ever they need it. Then when it comes to me, they don't have time or their busy with something else. But I drop everything and try to help them the best I can. I also felt...

8 Feb 07

is it IMPORTANT to be SKINNY??!!!

freezingfev @freezingfev (815) 7 Feb 07

y are girls soo absessed with being skinny?? is it important....do guys prefer skinny women??!!

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bodkerlo47 There are different kinds of people. Some people like fat, short, tall, skinny, and etc... Everyone has their own taste. I think the media pushes it. I heard on the radio the other day about them setting a weight limit on the fashion show because the women...

7 Feb 07

Eternal vacation? volunteer? do nothing?

thunderofsins @thunderofsins (738) • United States 7 Feb 07

If you never had to worry about money again and never had to work what would you do with your life? Would you volunteer, travel, sit at home and watch TV? I think I would travel a lot and volunteer at a group home or...

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bodkerlo47 I would travel. I would go shopping. I would share some. I would also invest a little.

7 Feb 07

girls who are pregnant or womens who have a child does it hurts when u have baby

queeny @queeny (80) • Mauritius 7 Feb 07

pregnancy womens or girls

pregnancy

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bodkerlo47 I have never had a child, but I can tell you the answer. Yes. That is one of the reasons I don't want to have any.

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