chechemdcm

@chechemdcm (47)

Philippines • Age 43

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Is it good to cry?

weemam @weemam (13372) 25 Feb 07

As most of you know my Mum and Dad both have Alzheimer's and my youngest son was born with Cerebral Palsy , It had been a bad morning for them and I needed to relax a bit and the PC was down so I locked out a Camcorder tape from...

cerebral palsy

did me good

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chechemdcm Yes, Crying really helps us to relieve all the pains inside of us. It can lessen the burden and it can make you feel good afterwards. Always bear in your mind that God will never give us problems that we cannot handle. Now, you will realize that all those...

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what is your opinion on giving money as gifts?

Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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chechemdcm I believed the couple is just being practical....Nowadays, it is better to give them money as a gift so they can buy what they really need and what they really want. This is also to avoid redundancy on the kind of gifts usually received on wedding day. When my...

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Do you believe in love at first sight???????????

appu14 @appu14 (45) • India 26 Feb 07

Do you really thing that one can fall in love with someone at first sight..and if yes how long that relationship can last??????

love

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chechemdcm For me, it isnt true. I dont believe in love at first sight. You may get attracted to someone the first time you see him/her, but falling in love, is far different from attraction. Its a process.... that why "falling" in love. It's not an "instant".

26 Feb 07

I hate Love...

unpretty14 @unpretty14 (63) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

Have you ever been inlove? Horrible isn't it? It makes you vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens your heart and it means someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses. You build up this...

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chechemdcm it is very sad that you have that feeling about love. You must remember that we all live by God's Love. Love completes you. If you are being hurt by someone. you just have to let go. Loving is sometimes letting go, instead of holding on.

26 Feb 07

How to stop him from trying to run your life?

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 25 Feb 07

My husband and I have been married 12yrs and it's been a bad 12yrs. He has beat me, degrade me, he is a acholic/drug addict. He has been in jail most of our marriage from the drinking and drugs and assult. We are seperated now and...

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chechemdcm How can he control you when he is in jail? He can do nothing. He cannot possibly harm you. Your bad experiences with your husband are good reasons for you to move on with your life. Do not help him as he has to learn his lessons for all his wrong doings.

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Piercing Babies Ears

lyricsmama @lyricsmama (48) • United States 21 Feb 07

Is it right or wrong? Did you get your babies ears pierced? If not is there a certain age they have to be before you will get it done??? For us, it wasn't the right thing to do. Its cosmetic, it has no good benefit healthwise...

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chechemdcm i had my baby's ears pierced when she was 1 month old. I guess there's nothing wrong with it. Just make sure the you could rely and trust the doctor who would do it to assure the safety of your baby.

22 Feb 07

Who should be embarrassed?

WeenitsMom @WeenitsMom (492) • United States 21 Feb 07

I'm fat. I admit it. I don't like it, but right now, there isn't really much I can do about it. NOw, that said, I have a thought. I use to work with the Develpomentally Disabled, residentially. One of the tasks I neede to perform...

embarrassed

obesity

shopping

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chechemdcm Well, thats really rude! Who is she to decide what r you going to buy and what you're going to eat. You should have said something. You didnt need her help and opinion cause she doesnt related to you in any way. She isnt your friend, she didnt even know your...

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Do other people make mistakes or just me?

Anakata2007 @Anakata2007 (1785) • Canada 16 Feb 07

I'm starting to wonder if everyone else is perfect except me. My husband tells me that I "yell at him all the time", so I started writing down on a calender when I get angry. I NEVER yell, and he finally admitted that...he just...

anger

husband

moody

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chechemdcm Nobody's perfect. YOu are not the only one who experience that. Count me in. My husband would always tell me y am i always mad at him, when actually i am not. They are just affected when they see us sad or mad. It's normal to feel anger or to be mad at...

22 Feb 07

Would you opt for a repeat C-section for your 2nd delivery?

mommydiaries @mommydiaries (191) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

I gave birth to my eldest in December 2005 via emergency c-section due to a cord coil. I am due to give birth again this May 2007. My OB GYNE says there is a chance I can deliver normally if my uterus is strong. The thought scares...

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chechemdcm If its ok, i would choose a normal delivery. There is this kind of anesthesia, given by the anesthesiologist continuously, while you're on labor, so you wouldn't feel the pain. but you also have to ask your OB-GYNE as to the safety of using it.

21 Feb 07

married people: question =)

bethel_101 @bethel_101 (432) • Philippines 21 Feb 07

i've never been married all my life, and i'm just curious. did you marry your betterhalf because of convenience or because of love? some people say you should marry someone who is financially and emotionally stable. so do you look...

relationships

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chechemdcm Never go into marriage when you're not inlove. "Love" should be the first reason for you to marry someone. Of course, you should also consider the fact the that someone you're going to marry can provide for you and your future kids and that he/she is mature...

21 Feb 07

Am i wrong or the whole world is ???

Seawaves @Seawaves (106) • United States 21 Feb 07

i existed in several situation when other children in my family or my freinds were acting really bad and saying bad stuff and beating other in front of my child and when we get to go home my baby start copying what she was seeing...

parenting

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chechemdcm Nothing is wrong with you but you cannot also blame the whole word for whatever your daughter is learning from other kids. There is just some parents who don't know how to discipline their kids. Talk to your daughter and and patiently and carefully explain to...

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Help! I need advice!

Anakata2007 @Anakata2007 (1785) • Canada 21 Feb 07

I have been off work for 4 months. I had a stillborn baby daughter in November. Tomorrow is my first day back at work. I'm very nervous as well as very angry at the people I work with. I'm angry because everyone I know sent us a...

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chechemdcm Be professional. Dont have to smile and you dont have to frown. Just do your work. Time heals wounds. At least now you know, who is your true friends.

21 Feb 07

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Complaining about payment!

XxAngelxX @XxAngelxX (2830) • Canada 20 Feb 07

I can't believe the amount of people on here that complain they are not getting paid enough! It amazes me that anyone should expect to make a decent living off of this site. I've been a member for almost two months now and I think...

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chechemdcm At first, i got interested on how much money i could get just by posting discussions and respond to other discussions but as the time goes by, i've learned that, its not just about money, but more importantly , the knowledge, the friendship that about to grow....

20 Feb 07

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do you think you're goodlooking

diorcastillo @diorcastillo (75) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

i had this problem a long time ago. my ex boyfriend asked me if he is handsome. well of course, being his girlfriend he should appear goodlooking to me no matter what. but the thing is, he really isn't goodlooking at all. he is...

beauty

face

wellness

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chechemdcm Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you love someone, he will always be the most handsome guy for you. You wouldn't realize that he looks funny until love disappear.

19 Feb 07

do you let your baby kissed by everyone???

krislouiebaby @krislouiebaby (2346) • Philippines 14 Feb 07

they love my baby so much, everyone is kissing him whenever he is around, they say he is smelling so nice and they cannot help it by kissing him,even on his lips and cheeks, now he has rashes on his face,,and he keep catching...

children

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chechemdcm I believe they would understand if you would tell them not to kiss your baby, at least for the mean time that he has rashes and he's catching colds and flu. We all know that babies are so easy to catch this virus since their immune system is not that strong...

14 Feb 07

since i had a bf, no flowers/gifts on valentines ^_^

diorcastillo @diorcastillo (75) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

i dont understand. when i was single, i used to receive strings of flowers and gifts. my room was practically a flower shop each valentine's day. well, that was back in the days when i was still single. now, since i had myself...

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chechemdcm My husband gave a stuffed toy, which is basically will be enjoyed by our baby. Nevertheless, I appreciate, his little gift, for me (for my baby, actually)! and He still made me happy!

14 Feb 07

how did you meet your love/bf/husband?

dream2night @dream2night (624) • Latvia 14 Feb 07

I met my boyfriend at bikers' party in my town. I was wearing mom's clothes, because I just did laundry and had nothing to wear:) I looked bad and he still liked me. We talked all night, danced and gave good bye kiss to eachother....

love

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chechemdcm My husband and I are working with the same company. We got employed there on the same year, that was 2001. So, basically, the new comers are the ones who always get along with each other cause they share same feelings, anxiety, fears, and excitement about...

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If your spouse cheats, are you to blame too?

awonderfullife @awonderfullife (2893) • United States 12 Feb 07

I have this one thoroughly obnoxious neighbor who once said that when a man cheats on his wife (or vice versa) it's BOTH of their fault,that there's ALWAYS an underlying source of the infidelity and that the marriage wasn't strong...

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chechemdcm It's always 2 to tango. We all make mistakes. But when someone did something wrong or is not just good enough as a husband or wife, nobody deserves to be cheated while they were living together.

13 Feb 07

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Marrying or alone forever

dionmanis @dionmanis (130) • Indonesia 12 Feb 07

My age 27 year, and me thirst for marry but i have no work which its fair to middling salary. More than anything else i come from countryside and form impecunious family. Solution of brothers and sisters very meaning for...

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chechemdcm It's a matter of choice. Choose where you can be happy. If you love someone and wants to get married, why not! If not, then stay happy being single.

13 Feb 07

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