debfeaster

@debfeaster (184)

United States • Age 55

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How much do you love your pet?

the_dutchess @the_dutchess (2610) • Philippines 26 Feb 09

I love my pet a lot. We've 2 cats, cissy and sassy, lol I remember one day it was raining so hard like 2:00 in the morning. My cats were out and I went up to bed, half-asleep, picked up an umbrella and searched for...

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debfeaster It is very hard for me to put in words how much I love my dog. You see Buddy (my springer spaniel) was originally my parents dog but both of my parents have passed away in the past 5 years and I have taken him as my own. I picked him out as a puppy and say him...

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Who loves you more? Your father or mother?

bdsurf @bdsurf (703) 26 Feb 09

I think mother loves sons more and dad loves daughters more. I find it by experimenting on my friends. I have no daughter so my father don't have that chance. But I have a younger brother. I am sure that both of my father and...

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debfeaster I think to say that a parent loves one child more than the other is very wrong. A parents love is one of a kind and should never be compared to any other love...not even questioned about who they love more. I can honestly say I have a sister and my parents...

26 Feb 09

do you have good friends more than 5 years?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 26 Feb 09

i had some good friends when i was student.we really had fun together at that time.But after graduating,most of them are seem busy we seldome kept contact each other.sometime i wanted to call,i missed our friendship ,but i didn't...

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debfeaster I have had a best friend for over 30 years...been friends since we were 9 years old. Friendship is a relationship and relationships take work and effort on the part of each person in it. Keeping in contact with eachother if you have some distance between you...

26 Feb 09

Will you marry a guy or a girl is infertile?

ktosea @ktosea (2026) • China 25 Feb 09

A man just found out that his girl friend will not be able to give him a baby after a surgery,his parents are totally indifferent about this and they ask their boy to break up with the girl.the man don't know what to do,he is also...

family

infertile

parents

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debfeaster I think he needs to do what is in his heart! When you are truly in love with someone this shouldn't be an issue now or in the future. There are alternative ways of having children than just giving birth. If you really want to be with someone you should be able...

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What are you looking forward to this summer ?

alokn99 @alokn99 (5717) • India 26 Feb 09

Me:- I can't wait for it get over and the rains to start. It's starting to get really hot. The heat can be really energy sapping and i'm getting to feel the brunt of it already. It's this dehydrated feeling, the power cuts,...

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debfeaster I would have to say that I enjoy being at the lake and boating with my boyfriend and family. Summer is a very busy time for me work wise so when I do get down time I love to spend it relaxing...kicking back while on a long slow boat ride, having a beer,...

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When your partner is away, describe what you miss most about him in 1 word

Pleiades @Pleiades (846) • United States 25 Feb 09

I got this idea from a discussion I responded to earlier and as I was relaxing today, I thought about my redheaded soldier and how much I miss him. Now, because he's away, it will be a few months before we even will have a chance...

describe

missing

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debfeaster EVERYTHING...that would have to be my word. My boyfriend lives 180 miles from me and right now we only are able to see eachother on weekends. I miss him terribly when he isn't here with me. It doesn't matter what we do or don't do...its just having close to me...

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Do you like rainy days?

barrymystery @barrymystery (57) • China 25 Feb 09

It has been raining for weeks in Suzhou. Everywhere is wet. It's chilly and uncomfortable. I dislike the rainy day. Anyhow, the current weeklong rainy days can extremely relieve the drough situation where most northern cities in...

drought

rainy days

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debfeaster I do like rainy days...they tend to be lazy days for me. Can't do too much outside so what else can you do...LOL! I will say if it has been raining for several days and days that would tend to be a bit overwhelming and frustrating. I am an outside person and...

26 Feb 09

Trying NOT to fall asleep

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 25 Feb 09

For the last few days I've had trouble sleeping so I've been going to bed at 3 and 4 in the morning. I also have a job that requires me to work after hours and normal hours. I have absolutely no sleep [attern and today I started...

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debfeaster I too have suffered with not being able to sleep and then being totally exhausted. If fact just this week...LOL! My mother was a nurse and she told me to take benedryl...it makes you sleepy but is non habit forming. It works for me. I have also used an advil...

26 Feb 09

why do garbage bags always leak?

TnWoman @TnWoman (1895) • United States 26 Feb 09

hello everybody here at Mylot. why do garbage bags always leak? has anybody around here at Mylot ever found a good garbage bag that doesn't leak? grr. i usually just buy store brand garbage bags and that might be the reason...

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debfeaster I too have had this problem and was getting really frustrated at having to clean the garbage can all the time...not to mention cleaning the floor after it drips all over the place. Someone told me to try the flex bags...so I did and I love them. Since I have...

26 Feb 09

Why is it so hard to convince people?

sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 25 Feb 09

Everyone here is posting about wanting to find a good online business or some way to earn online... Then you tell them this legitimate site, full of proofs but they never believe it. All the time you get people to say it is a...

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debfeaster I too think that people have been scammed so much that they may judge things too fast before knowing what it all entails. I personally have been trying to find ways to earn extra money...but with little success for sure. I do realize there are legitimate...

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Do you ever find that the air outside has a bad odor?

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 26 Feb 09

Yesterday everywhere I went it stunk outside. Smelled very bad almost like a sewage was leaking. Everyone in my area noticed it. I figured maybe some horse manure spilled someplace. We do live kind of close to farms etc.. Have you...

air stinks

bad odor

horse menure

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debfeaster I live in an area that is about 10-15 miles from a couple paper mills so bad smelling are a norm here...LOL! I will say that most the time I can't smell it where I live but as soon as I get within 5 miles of it I can smell it. Also if the clouds are really low...

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Is it alright for a man to cry???

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 24 Feb 09

I get so many people saying " Men aren't supposed to cry" or telling their sons that "Boy's don't cry" or telling that they are a sissy or soft for shedding a few tears. My husband cries when he has the emotion to cry and I don't...

questions and answers

women

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debfeaster I am a true believer in showing your feeling no matter what they are and no matter if you are male or female. I do think it is perfectly natural for a man to cry...in fact I think it is also very healthy...it shows they are in touch with their feelings and...

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Do you like to Stay in a all inclusive resort or a Hotel

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 20 Feb 09

Sometimes I stay all inclusive which means you get Airfare,Hotel,drinks and food all included in your package. I find this way does save money. But when I have more money I will just get a villa or stay in a hotel. But you will...

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debfeaster One of the best vacations I ever had was when a large group of us went on an all inclusive vacation to Cancun. It was great...you could eat and drink whenever you wanted...didn't need to worry about anything. I travel a bit and have also done cruises which are...

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Are you a Walmart shopper?

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 20 Feb 09

I am a Walmart shopper. I like to save money so I do go to Walmart if I need anything. Do you go to Walmart to save money? Are you a Walmart shopper? Do you have one close to your house?

shopper

shopping at walmart

walmart

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debfeaster I do shop at Walmart but sometimes I get so disgusted when I think about it. About 15 miles from me is a town of about 15,000 and it used to be a very cute little town with tons on small locally owned businesses and it seems since Walmart has moved in that...

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Do you think this is funny?

dreamertink @dfollin (25381) • United States 18 Feb 09

I do! A man in Washington state found out there were burgulars in his house while he was in the basement he snuck out with his cell phone and got in the get away van that was running with the keys in the ignition and...

funny

smart

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debfeaster That is hillarious...LOL! I didn't hear that one but it is a good one. I commend the guy for taking action and doing something. As far as it being dumb or funny...I think it could be both. What would have happened if someone else was still in the van...not...

19 Feb 09

Toyota or Honda?

sdas86 @sdas86 (6076) • Malaysia 18 Feb 09

I am reading a lot about Toyota and Honda cars. Both are nice and good. Some of my friends are saying that Honda is better build. I am not sure about it. If you are going to buy a car, would you choose Toyota or Honda?

car

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debfeaster I don't know much about Honda cars but I do know some people that own them, love them and wouldn't buy any other. I never realized that the Lexus cars are also built by Toyota and that is where they trickle down with some of the body styles and interior...

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Will you get married with a person you don't love?

Jennyaijua @Jennyaijua (85) • China 19 Feb 09

I have a friend,the girl he loves has gotten married with another man,so he married a girl he does't love.He even does't like to talk with his wife though she loves him so much.In order to get rid of his pain,he often got...

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debfeaster I think your male friend put himself in a terrible position. Marriage is difficult enough when you love eachother much less when you don't. I got married when I was 28...thought I was in love with my husband and it turns out we ended up in divorce. I realized...

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Money or present?

kathyxi @kathyxi (20) • China 19 Feb 09

What will you give to when you attend your friends wedding? Are you used to give money or a gift? In my country, people can take a beautiful and uncheap-present to the new couple. But more people are used to give a red pocket to...

wedding

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debfeaster That is a dilema we all have faced at least once that is for sure. I would have to say for me it depends on the couple. If I am very close to them and know them well then I would take the extra time and find a super special gift for them. If I know them but...

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What are you typing on right now?

Marcola @Marcola (2774) • United States 15 Feb 09

A desktop computer or a laptop computer? Come on! It'll be fun to see how many of us still use desktop computers! I'm typing on a desktop. I guess I live in the stone age or something...*shrugs*

computers

technology

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debfeaster I have both a desktop and laptop. I only use my desktop at the office and mostly use my laptop. I do love having a laptop but am desperately in need of a new one...technology changes so fast. This computer is only 3 years old but as soon as I can get things...

18 Feb 09

Missing my father...

meticulo @meticulo (1286) • United States 10 Feb 09

I just missed my father this early..I lost him last Feb 5, 2009. We buried him yesterday. May his soul rest in peace..

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debfeaster I am so sorry for your loss! It is never an easy thing to lose a loved one and one that is such an important part of our lives. I would like to say it will get easier but the truth is we just learn to accept it. I lost my father 5 years ago and wow what a hit...

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