feliciamimmi22

@feliciamimmi22 (101)

Ireland • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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misery

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 14 Nov 10

dome of us live in misery and they seem to be ok with it. I'm shocked to see young people on the street, people who should be working, prefering to beg for a penny near the church or at the subway. of course it's easyer to earn...

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feliciamimmi22 I find it hard to believe that anyone would chose to beg instead of working. I know there are organised beggers that make little kids beg for them, but its just so sad:-(

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What would you feel if the only person you trust cheated you

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 14 Nov 10

Trusting someone wholeheartedly is not an easy task, because now a days its very difficult to trust every one you will meet. Even your closest friends might betray you when facing difficult situation. Personally before I gave my...

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feliciamimmi22 Yes, sadly when trust is broken it is very hard to regain that trust. Especially of the person who betrayed you was someone you trusted and loved.

14 Nov 10

School tells student the American Flag not allowed on school property

AnjaP @Rollo1 (16679) • Boston, Massachusetts 12 Nov 10

A middle school in Denair, CA, told 13 year old Cody Alicea to remove the American flag he has flying from the back of his bike. According to school officials, the American flag could cause "racial tensions or uprisings". Some...

freedom

school bans us flag

us flag

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feliciamimmi22 Wow! I must say that I am really surprosed to hear about this! One thing I have noticed whenever I have visited the flag is everywhere:-) In Sweden, wgere I am from, we have had this problem for ages where its been condidered racist to wave the Swedish flag...

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im looking for a new job now

mel_87 @mel_87 (856) 23 Jun 07

hi everyone, well as most of you know i work in a hotel and i work nights, when i applied for the job i applyed to work days, when they offered me the job they said can i work nights for 3 months then go onto days after that so i...

work

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feliciamimmi22 Hi Mel_87, That sounds like an annoying situation and I can understand your frustration with them promising you to put you on days but it then never happens. My advice would be to try and look for a new job, you have 9 months hotel experience behind you at...

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For your everyday spending do you use cash or a debit card?

Sherry12 @Sherry12 (2472) • United States 11 Jun 07

I've been experimenting on what works best for us in not going over our budget. I'm finding if we use cash and know that is all we are going to spend that week, we do better then using a debit card. I was surprised because I...

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feliciamimmi22 I am trying not to use my debit card too much as the charges does not show up on my bank account or quite a while, and its easier to keep track on my spending when using cash. For bigger purchases I tend to use my credit card and then I transfer the money...

12 Jun 07

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Are you a thief?

tmlnmr @tmlnmr (1850) • Canada 10 Jun 07

When I was growing up and old enough to have a babysitting job or any other job, my mom use to take my money for food ect... I started to steal 20 bucks out of each check for myself so I had something to "play with". We lived on...

parenting

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feliciamimmi22 Hello tlmnmr, I wouldn't really considerwhat you did stealing given the fact that it was our own money that you earnt. To be honest, it sounds like your mum was the one stealing rom you, I can understand that she might have needed some more money to support...

11 Jun 07

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Who do you go to for advice?

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 11 Jun 07

Your mind is in a turmoil...you can not seem to think straight....who do you go to for advice? When I am really upset...I have to ponder it for awhile...I have a tendency to over-analyze a situation...but occasionally the...

advice

clearer picture

help

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feliciamimmi22 What I do when I am really upset about something is talk it through with one of my closest friends. It helps a lot to put words to it, and then I start thinking about different solotions. Sometimes, I go to my favorite cafe with a notebook and a pen and sit...

11 Jun 07

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United States Citizens Escaping to Canada?

SageMother @SageMother (2277) • United States 19 Jan 07

Here in the USA we hear alot about those illegal aliens that are entering the border through Mexico, and we hear about people migrating to the USA for a better life. I wonder why we don't hear about people who leave the USA for...

immigration

law

travel

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feliciamimmi22 That is an interesting topic! I am not from the US but I have been there quite a lot, so could try giving you an outside opinion. After what I have seen, life in the US was pretty good, but it also had a downside, a lot of powerty and epensive medical care and...

20 Jan 07

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Which Would You Prefer? A High Paying Job Or A Job You Love?

Brentsky @Brentsky (164) • United States 18 Jan 07

So which would it be? The money, or the joy you have at work. Personally I would prefer to have a career that I love. Something that I wouldn't mind doing day after day and I enjoy. Sure, lots of money would be nice but having a...

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feliciamimmi22 I would definitely go for a job that I enjoy. The kind of job that makes me wake up in the morning looking forward to get to work, if that job also happen to be well paid... well, that's just an extra bonus:-)

19 Jan 07

I have a job interview!!!!

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 18 Jan 07

I have an interview for a job on Monday!!! Hopefully I will get the job. I have faith that I will. The job isn't what I have done as a profession, but the profession I have worked in previously caused a great deal of stress in...

employment

interview

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feliciamimmi22 Wishing you the very best for your interview on Monday! Please post something here on mylot after, and let us know how it went. Just go there, be yourself and let your natural confidence shine true! Again, wishing you the best of luck!

19 Jan 07

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Do love marraiges succeed?

berry9 @berry9 (590) • India 18 Jan 07

The general belief in indian society is that love marraiges are the kind of disobidience and disrespect shown on parents.Most parents think,love marraiges dont normally succeed as children though above 20 are still not ready for a...

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feliciamimmi22 In my opinion, all marriages should be built on love and entered into because of love and the will to build a future and a home with that particular person. An arranged marriage might work but the concept of it is very alien to me. Probably because I grow up...

19 Jan 07

Secrets...Do you wish to keep them?

kritipen @kritipen (4082) • United States 18 Jan 07

For me keeping secrets are a big burden. I have to ultimately share them with someone or the other. I cannot keep them for too long..... either mine or others. Secrets make you always think about them and somehow one can never...

burden

secrets

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feliciamimmi22 I like to think that I am pretty good in keeping secrets, the worst thing I could imagine would be telling someone something in confidence only to find out that my friend had been breaking my trust, I would be really hurt and it would be hard for me to stay...

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Is it fine to have a relationship with another lady after you are married

sunilwason @sunilwason (172) • India 17 Jan 07

I consider it quite healthy to have an intimate relationship with your office colleague or friend (of the opposite gender) even if one is married. Am I wrong in my thought or act. My spouse doesnot approve of it so I am kind of...

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feliciamimmi22 I am not quite sure I understand your question, If the question is, is it ok to have close friends even though you are married, my answer to that would be "yes, of course it is" Friendship is extremely important and does not stop just because you get married....

18 Jan 07

Things in your food? Complain to the manager or say nothing?

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 11 Jan 07

A few weeks ago, my husband, my mom, and I went out to eat at a local chinese restaurant. This was my husband's first time going there because he recently moved to my town, and therefore didn't know many local places. I was...

things in your food

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feliciamimmi22 I would definitely have complained. That us awful, and should not be left alone. Who knows what the sanitory conditions in that restaurant is, or how many people who have had the same experience. Its lucky that your mother spotted it before he started...

12 Jan 07

Should a 3 year old ride the school bus?

cindync23 @cindync23 (52) • United States 10 Jan 07

Maybe I am being a little too paranoid about this. My 3 year old son is in pre-k. All the other kids in his class rides the school bus. I take him to and from school. I have a 5 month old that can't get over a cold and I think it...

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feliciamimmi22 I totally agree with you, a 3-year old sounds way to young to ride a school bus on his own. Would there be any adults looking after him on the bus? In that age, they still need to be supervised all the time. If there are adults on the bus, looking after the...

11 Jan 07

Really worried about my friend.

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 10 Jan 07

A friend of mine phoned me this evening, very upset on the phone. She's separated from her husband (4 years separated), she had a 13 year old son living with her and he was giving her an awful time, misbehaving and getting poor...

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feliciamimmi22 Oh, I am so sorry to hear that, and I understand how worried you are. The best thing you can do is just being there for her if she needs to talk. It is a really tough situation and it is no wonder she is crying a lot. Where does her ex husband live? Does she...

11 Jan 07

What do you feel about people who "un adopt" children?

sylviekitty @sylviekitty (2083) • United States 9 Jan 07

Not that long ago, there was a case in the news about parents who had "fallen in love" with a boy in their foster care, and decided to adopt him. However, when he turned 12, he molested two young children. In court, his "new"...

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feliciamimmi22 That is a really sad story! As far as I am concerned, adoption means the same thing as giving birth, the commitement is the same. Of course it is bad that they did not have all the relevant information when adopting the boy, but that does not make it all...

10 Jan 07

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do you consult a psychologist?

eicher @eicher (509) • France 1 Jan 07

My mother wants me to consult a psy but I am not very enthusiastic with the idea to tell my life and my secrets with an unknown... what do you thing about this?

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feliciamimmi22 I think a psychologist would be the best person to talk to, as they are bound by the law of confidentiality, which means they cannot talk about you to anyone, not even their collegues or family. Take your time until you find a psychologist you feel...

9 Jan 07

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