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vinayakgole @vinayakgole (19) • India 4 Nov 10

We always get attached to things. Though we are born alone, we get attached slowly to our parents, then to toys, friends, lovers and memories. We get conditioned to attachments so much that we believe that life can only be lived...

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vinayakgole I agree. But the point I am trying to make here is whether we need any environment at all. Cant we just be ourselves with ourselves? I have known people who have got attached to their iphones. We have been conditioned over the years to get attached to...

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vinayakgole @vinayakgole (19) • India 4 Nov 10

We always get attached to things. Though we are born alone, we get attached slowly to our parents, then to toys, friends, lovers and memories. We get conditioned to attachments so much that we believe that life can only be lived...

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Uroborus @Uroborus (908) • Canada 31 Jul 08

The phenomena of people spending hours on the internet to make an average of pennies an hour is fascinating to me. Don't get me wrong, I'm not ridiculing these people. After all, I'm on here, and I've even wasted some time here...

greed

money

ptc

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vinayakgole its the money.....however less it might be...but its still money

1 Aug 08

marababe @marababe (2503) • Philippines 31 Jul 08

I do! Well, tonight that is. I don't know why I can't wait to see how much I've earned for my participation yesterday. This is actually the first time that this happened. I usually get excited but not this much. How about...

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vinayakgole who doesn't like to earn money and when you can earn money by talking to people.I definitely get excited and that is the first thing I do every morning when I get up.Log on and find out my earnings for the day.....or yesterday at least :-)

1 Aug 08

iyah10 @iyah10 (4115) • Kuwait 31 Jul 08

In my Hometown in the Philippines we only boiled the rice with the plain water but now that I am here in Kuwait we also make our rice in different ways like first boiled the water with the salt and oil after a while mixed with...

how do u make

rice

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vinayakgole My mother uses a pressure cooker to cook rice but my wife uses a microwave. Add rice and two-thirds water and cook it in the microwave for about 10 minutes and you have nice puffy rice ready. If we are making flavored rice we half cook the rice in the oven,...

1 Aug 08

pixiedustforyou2008 @pixiedustforyou2008 (2422) • United States 31 Jul 08

So you think is should be mandatory for the young people that want to get married??? My husband and i are a young couple and we are going to marrage counseling for help in communication and how to show each other the...

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vinayakgole I think counseling is needed when the marriage seems to be on the verge of ending. Egos usually get the better of us and it's always nice if someone could just help break the silence. By counseling I dont mean professional help but counseling from friends or...

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zed_k4 @zed_k4 (17589) • Singapore 31 Jul 08

Really guys how have you all been doing? I was recuperating from a heart-break. Alright, it's time I come clean with what happened actually. I was getting over a love-lost. Because I am so guilty to be missing out on mylot. I...

hugo boss

missing mylot

missing out on mylot

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vinayakgole i think the remedy for you is to listen to the led zep song "good times,bad times"... and welcome back.....i guess thats what mylot is for....friends :-)

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PearlGrace @PearlGrace (3171) • United States 31 Jul 08

I am a strong proponent of taking walks. In fact, I think walking is one of the best exercises we can do because-1--it's affordable to most, 2--we can do it inside or outside, 3--it keeps us moving. Now, in view of that, I am...

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vinayakgole I take a walk everyday.....not in the "exercise" terms but literally.I have to walk 10 minutes to the train station from my home and 10 minutes again to reach office.SO I guess I walk 20 to 30 minutes daily....

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Jess @JJ4Ever (4693) • United States 30 Jul 08

If you gave money to a friend in need, should you be able to tell them how to spend it? If I were to give money out of the kindness of my heart to help a friend in need, should I be able to tell them how to spend it since I’m...

helping a friend in need

helping others

money

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vinayakgole If I was to know my friend will be spending the money on illegal stuff I would take extra care never to lend him money. Money does not come easy and so does friendship. It is very important to help friends but it is also our responsibility to prevent them from...

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roshand8 @roshand8 (1478) • Sri Lanka 29 Jul 08

I am not exactly light skinned or dark skinned I am in between.I think skin colour or race has nothing to do with how attractive one is.I come from a family that is every shade of,brown from dark skinned to very light(rainbow...

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vinayakgole who says so.....I am myself considered fair but i am inadvertently attracted to the dusky types.I think the dusky types are definitely more attractive and the fair skin has been whipped up to a hype especially in India

30 Jul 08

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vinayakgole @vinayakgole (19) • India 29 Jul 08

I have been a huge fan of rock music.I grew up listening to gnr and metallica.I would run home early from school to get a glimpse of my favorite singers on mtv.But I guess that's all classic music now.I don't see that kind of...

rock muisc

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vinayakgole How true. Kids are really missing on the real music. Music is about the guitar riffs and the never ending vocals. I have an ever expanding collection of music myself and I make sure no one disturbs me when I am at listening to my collection.

30 Jul 08

vinayakgole @vinayakgole (19) • India 29 Jul 08

I have been a huge fan of rock music.I grew up listening to gnr and metallica.I would run home early from school to get a glimpse of my favorite singers on mtv.But I guess that's all classic music now.I don't see that kind of...

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asifthakur @asifthakur (76) • India 27 Jul 08

Hi everybody..this might sound like a very naive question, but i really feel that i need to know what successful people in life really think about the luck factor. ever since we were kids we were told that its hard work and...

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vinayakgole Luck is very necessary in life. I have been beaten down innumerable times because my luck was down.Try as much as I might I simply couldn't get anywhere. But after some years I have been doing well. Even tough I could have been better had my luck been better....

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beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 27 Jul 08

My daughter picked up this nasty phrase "Shut up!" from a movie. Or, at least, I think she did. The first time I heard those words coming out of her mouth at me, I was stunned. I had no idea she would even want to say such...

dealing with rude children

my life online

teach manners to your child

watch tv online

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vinayakgole Children are very prone to the environment they are in and tend to learn from what they see. I have seen a lot of children being disciplined by parents for being foul mouthed. I feel it's imperative for the parents to teach the children what is right and what...

28 Jul 08

gabbana @gabbana (1815) • China 27 Jul 08

When go travelling each year, i always book a package tour, because i enjoy the fun we have on the way to the scenary and the way back home. I enjoy meeting people, and even though the trip is not very attractive, i can have great...

package tour

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vinayakgole I personally do not prefer packaged tours. They take away the freedom that you can enjoy when you are doing it on your own. Suppose I want to spend more time at a particular place,I have to leave because the time is already set and quite limited. While on the...

28 Jul 08

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rosema @rosema (1145) • Philippines 24 Jul 08

Hi my friends, I am just wondering if you save money and how you do it. Mine I make sure to put everyday my left coins inside a piggy bank the 5 and the 10. I dont used it, it just stay there for 1 year, i save it or used the...

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vinayakgole I do not believe in saving money. Saved money is useless unless you make the money earn for you. Invest money and it will pay you more

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shelly43 @shelly43 (1197) • Australia 24 Jul 08

hi all, i just want know how you knew it was love.. i knew when i met my hubby that he was the one for me, i met him at 15 and we all used to go in the city and meet up then it happened he kissed me and i knew from that kiss...

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vinayakgole when I saw my would be wife for the first time I knew there was something different about her.she was a combination of shyness and wildness.Its been just 4 months of marriage and I can't stop thinking of her.

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