xanraven

@xanraven (145)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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You are the talk of the town--how will you handle it?

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 29 Aug 08

When people are talking about negative things behind your back, what will you do? How do you know if they're talking about you? Is it about how they whisper in front you, how they stare at you or what? Share your stories and...

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xanraven I handle it with the "Don't Give a Crap" attitude. So what if someone doesn't like you. They are the ones wasting their time and energy being upset or sharing gossip. I have several situations where the whole town knew everything about me before I did. I got...

29 Aug 08

Are you a trapped under the curse??

k1virus1978 @k1virus1978 (543) • Singapore 29 Aug 08

Everyone has this habits, everyone has this curse under them. Not just me but everyone, well you are rite. We are under the curse of Credit Cards Debts, more and more people falls under the curse of debts. They used their credit...

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xanraven I can honestly say that I only have one credit card but it's not one for general use. It is my Care Credit card used for medical purposes only. It's great for uninsured or people with low incomes. I had to use it to get my teeth done. I had dentures made and...

29 Aug 08

i need help locating someone

supercyndi @supercyndi (26) • United States 15 Aug 08

I have been unable to locate my kids mother in a year and a half. Is there anyone that knows a free site to track someone or something i can do to find her. I have a feeling she may be dead, as horrible as it sounds, that would be...

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xanraven I believe death records are public you just need to search anywhere she might have lived. I still got assistance even though the couldn't find my sons bio. dad. I know absolutely nothing about him and they put down what little pieces of info I could remember....

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How do you show your commitment in a relationship?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 14 Aug 08

Basically,when I think of commitment, there are only two ways,either through actions or words. Some guys tend to use words to give assurance to their partners as a sign of commitment to prove that they are serious in the...

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xanraven I am very proud of my Husband for everything he does. He shows his commitment and love by working, being a dad and loving husband. Specifically to me it's when he hangs around and I am in the worst mood. I know that if he's going to be there then at the worst...

14 Aug 08

Quality or quantity, What do you think?

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 14 Aug 08

This is a question for my fellow My Lotters where earning and quality responses are concerned. I think I saw this question posted before but I need to ask again for better specification. I was wondering if you believe...

quality answers

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xanraven I always try to give quality answers. I wouldn't want someone to answer one my questions with an answer that doesn't even apply. It seemed I earned more on the days I had time to really think about my answers and put a lot of thought into them. I like to help...

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love

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 13 Aug 08

this isnt really a question,more an observation.People use the word love a lot these days,i do it,i love chocolate,i love dr who,does that take anything away from the meaning? (okay that was a question)

love

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xanraven To me it does. I only use the word love when I absolutely love something. I never just say Oh I love this or that. I would say I really enjoy this or I really like that. I think that love has a meaning. I wouldn't say I love something when I really didn't and...

13 Aug 08

How do you guys pray?

angel_of_charm @angel_of_charm (4134) • Philippines 13 Aug 08

do you pray like closing your eyes and pray with your mind? or laying down on your bed and eyes close praying on your mind? or lay down eyes open and talking like your talking to a live person? reason why i'm asking is because...

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xanraven I talk to God all day long. It's not a long lengthy conversation but I've noticed that I constantly say stuff like "Please help me God" or "Thank you God". Whenever I see someone in need especially. I rarely ever close my eyes because I'm normally doing...

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Why am I so scared to get my life back on track?????

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 13 Aug 08

I don't know what is wrong with me.. I feel as if I am having a very hard time coping with me being self-sufficient. I feel as if I am wrong for moving out of my grandmother's house.. I know that I have to, this os the only way....

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xanraven I felt the same way when I left my abusive boyfriend. I was so terrified of trying and failing. I just had to look at my baby and know that I had too there was no other way about it. It will get better in time. I know it doesn't look that way. I think when our...

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Does anyone know of any agencies off hand that will assist paying rent for me?

cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 13 Aug 08

I will be moving into my new apartment very soon. I need to know any and all agencies that will assist me in paying for my rent. I know that I will need the extra hand and it may become difficult for me. I don't want to get...

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xanraven First of all good for you on being strong enough not to let anyone hurt you anymore. The only thing that comes to mind as far as getting extra money is through your local human resources dept. You can file for TANF (temporary assistance for needy families)....

13 Aug 08

Answers to Christ believers

dudleeLOT @dudleeLOT (18) • India 13 Aug 08

Does God created only Adam and Eve to Populate Earth? If adam and eve were the first people god created on earth, then were all of us born through them were brothers and sisters? In christianity, the concept of marriage...

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xanraven Please note this is my opinion and How I was brought up believing!! I always was told that it is a Sin to marry immediate family like 1st or 2nd cousins, family that close. In my opinion the line of people created down from Adam and Eve have gradually grown so...

13 Aug 08

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>>>Why would someone do that?<<<

TheCarter @TheCarter (369) • United States 13 Aug 08

Have you ever asked someone a questions and simply not care about their respone? Like you were trying to set them up for a fall or something? Why would someone do that?

embarrassment

ridicule

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xanraven I have had that happen to me but I have never asked and question and then not cared for the answer. I wouldnt ask a question unless I really wanted to know. It hurts my feelings tremendously when someone does that to me. It's those people that I try to stay...

13 Aug 08

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Feeling unappreciated?

foxyfire33 @foxyfire33 (10005) • United States 13 Aug 08

This is not meant to be a rant...actually I was thinking we could make this a fun, uplifting discussion. Do you every feel unappreciated? You know...when you go out of your way or try really hard to to the right thing or a good...

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xanraven I completely understand what you are talking about!!! I can clean the house top to bottom (this rarely gets done completely). I mean vacuum, sweep, mop, dust, wash, polish, everything that can possibly be done. I work my tail off, break a sweat and all that...

13 Aug 08

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What is Love???

vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 13 Aug 08

Every love will emerge in their own ways. Love at first sight, Friendship into love. Which one do you believe? Love at first Sight, Is tat possible???? Is that true love or just attraction? Friendship Vs Love, Can a friend become...

friendship

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xanraven I fell in love with my husband when I first saw him. At the time I was dating his best friend and he was seeing another person as well. After about a month we had both broken up with our bf/gf at the time and started talking on the phone. We started just being...

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Does it matter to you if your partner gets a little out of shape?

magojordan @magojordan (3252) • Philippines 11 Aug 08

My girlfriend has gained weight during the past few months. She would complain sometimes that she's getting fat. I would always tell her that it doesn't really matter to me but sometimes I can't help it but poke her soft tummy....

advice

love

relationship

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xanraven It has never bothered me that since we got married my husband gained a little weight. I did too of course it was from having kids. Anyhow he and I just talk it over like adults without getting upset. We both decided that we would exercise or walk and cut back...

11 Aug 08

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PTC, is it realy worth our time?

druids @druids (42) • Philippines 11 Aug 08

Well tell me, I have been an active clickers for most PTC Sites, almost half of them turned out to be scam. Is it really worthy? Post your opinion.

make my money

ptc

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xanraven I am a member of a few myself. I have only reached pay out on one and i'm still waiting on it. they said it can take up to 30 days and it's only been a week. If it does show up then i'll continue to participate otherwise i'm done with all of them. I think some...

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HELP My Mother PLEASE!!!

LadyMarissa @LadyMarissa (12148) • United States 9 Aug 08

My Mom is 83 & having a hard time right now. She's diabetic controlled by pills. About 4 months ago she suddenly became dizzy & unstable when she tried to walk. Her doc chalked it up to Vertigo. Well it just kept getting worse &...

elderly

illness

medical

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xanraven My great-grandmother is 83 also she does this same thing. Her's is from alzheimers. She talks to Poppa her late husband and she falls at least once a week. She has broken her hip once we think twice because she just started limping a bit. I don't know much...

10 Aug 08

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