xiaoqian19880825

@xiaoqian19880825 (180)

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I don't get why she is this way to me!

dismalgrin @dismalgrin (2604) • United States 10 Apr 13

Today my boyfriend's niece came back from a visit to California and my boyfriend and I went to pick her up from the Airport. When we got back to my boyfriend's house she started whipping out presents for everyone. Everyone but me....

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xiaoqian19880825 hi, I am undergoing the similar things to you, but the target is not niece, but my bot friend's mom, who let me sad and mad all the time. I have to obey her because that I LOVE my boy friend very much and he is trying his best to make her mother change her...

11 Apr 13

boyfriend didn't want his kid..

craftybird @craftybird (80) • United States 10 Apr 13

I have been dating a guy for 4 month's now.I met him from my friend and he was really nice and fun to hang out with but after a few week's of going out he told me he has a son that is 8.I was alright with it, and he know's i...

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xiaoqian19880825 I agree with you. If I were you, I could not stand his attitude to his own kid, either. If he does not care his kid, he will not care about anything. I can understand your feelings. Maybe you have been doubt his character and consider your relationship.

11 Apr 13

Broken relationships

joyalaugustine @joyalaugustine (74) • India 11 Apr 13

Why did you break up with your first love? and what effect it had on your life after?Could you live your life as nothing ever happened.Could you forget everything?

broken relationships

relationships

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xiaoqian19880825 hi, dear friend, I didn't go through the break up with my love. My current boyfriend is my first love, and I hope that he will be my last and be my husband. But my roommate in university has two experiences of this break-up thing. The first time her boy friend...

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How to Tell Your Wife You Love Her Without Saying A Word

Taher Abdelaziz Abdelwahab @taheraa (1545) • Giza, Egypt 7 Apr 13

Over the years, not just at the beginning of a marriage, you must show your wife how much you care about her. To keep the spark alive, try showing your wife how much you love her instead of just saying it. There are many...

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xiaoqian19880825 Remember her birthday and give her a surprise and a little but prepared elaborately present.

8 Apr 13

I'm cheating on my boyfriend with these 2 guys

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

Yes, I am spending a lot of my hours with these two guys recently. They help take my mind away from the loneliness I feel without my boyfriend around. -sigh- Here's a picture of...

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xiaoqian19880825 I can understand you very much. Without boyfriend beside, it's easy to feel boring and lonely for us girls. To be honest, though it's ambarrassing, sometimes I even has the absurd idea to watch a . Sigh. But now I can solve the problem in another way,...

8 Apr 13

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The moment that you realized the worth of your EX to your life,

Jandie @tech40 (23121) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

Hi guys, I have an ex girlfriend and it's almost 2years ago that we have break up, actually, it's almost 2 years but still I love her, We have both new relationship, she has boyfriend and i have girlfriend, but still sometimes...

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xiaoqian19880825 Relationship could not be forced. Your EX has said that she's content now. But if you really love her, I SUPORT you to court her continuously, cos if you are with your present GF missing your EX, it's not fair for your GF. So pursue your love, all our life we...

8 Apr 13

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what are the legal implications of a threat?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

Lately, someone close to me got into a very messy situation involving a person, his classmate who just came from rehab, and who is now studying with him in the same school and living next to his condo. He thought this person is...

threat

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xiaoqian19880825 I am sorry to hear that. Maybe your friend now has to begin collect the evidence and witnesses. And the most important thing is to move out that apartment as soon as possible.

8 Apr 13

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Bullies at school

beamer88 @beamer88 (4259) • Philippines 13 Feb 11

I'm very fortunate that my son hasn't been bullied at his school. But I fear that one day it might happen to him. He's a smart kid who always answers the teacher's questions, and as such, his teachers adore him. He's always happy...

bullying

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xiaoqian19880825 hi, I am sorry to hear that bully things. When I was a kid, I also had the characteristics of your son, but I was not bullied. The students who were bullied were that ones whose home was far and not adored by the teacher. Maybe the bad buys in view of the fact...

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running out of creative juices...

arahmae14 @arahmae14 (63) • Philippines 31 Mar 13

I am a writer. However, these past few days, I've been having trouble with creating topics/subjects to write on... I don't know how will I start to motivate myself to come back in writing. Any advice is welcome...

writers block

writing

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xiaoqian19880825 go outside to see the world. Take a travel to relax yourself! Breathing the fresh air will clear your mind. Dear friend, good luck!

31 Mar 13

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Have you ever been arrested?

lmw814 @lmw814 (124) • United States 6 May 12

Getting arrested by the police must be one of the scariest experiences I can think of. I'd be scared to death getting cuffed and stuffed into a police car. Has anybody here ever been arrested and care to share what it's really...

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xiaoqian19880825 never, I am always a good children. I would be quite scared if I was arrested. I consider that the life at the prison is murky and tough, even danger just like that in "Prison Break".

6 May 12

Why the cats hate to have the bath so much?

youless @youless (112672) • Guangzhou, China 4 May 12

Dogs and cats are quite different. Dogs enjoy having the bath whereas the cats hate it. But you know cats are elegant animals and they shall like to be clean. Why they hate to have the bath so much?

bath

bathe

cat

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xiaoqian19880825 it's because that the house cat usually is afraid of water. House cats evolved from African wildcats or Asiatic desert wildcats, both of which live in an environment where the water is not sufficient. And house cats have an ability of self-cleaning, while...

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I am very outdated since I don't know much about Adele

youless @youless (112672) • Guangzhou, China 4 May 12

I haven't paid attention to the popular music these years. It seems that Adele is a very popular singer even if she doesn't dress up as well as Lady Gaga and her look is also ordinary. I think she has the talent of singer and she...

adele

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xiaoqian19880825 Her song "Some one like you " is really really orphean. The melody is so moving. I feel that there are some similarity between her and whitney Houston.

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It is a waste to set low temperature

youless @youless (112672) • Guangzhou, China 4 May 12

Today on my way home, I passed by a department store. Wow, it was so cold inside since they set low temperature. I really think this is a big waste since it is not necessary. It is also not good for the health since there is a big...

waste

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xiaoqian19880825 I CAN NOT agree more. I also can not understand that why some places set very low temperature when it's not necessary in fact. The day before yesterday I sat on a car on the way to my friend's wedding, the air-condition was set so low temperature that I have...

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The revenge of snake!

vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 4 May 12

Have you ever heard about the revenge of snake? There are many story about the revenge of snake in my country. They talk that when you kill a snake, then other snake will revenge you. Do you believe that story?

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xiaoqian19880825 Everything is retributive justice. I believe all the revenge stories. I think hatred is a very strong power, and the revenge is inevitable once the seed of hatred is planted.

4 May 12

I feel sad and depressed when i should be happy? whatz wrong with me...

salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 4 May 12

Hi everyone, My best friend just called now, she got Phd in New Zealand, though i am really happy for her, i kind feel sad because right now, just this year things are very different...i am facing lot of farewells...i always...

coming to terms with separation

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xiaoqian19880825 I agree with stowyk. Make some new friends, and you will find life is still beautiful. I believe your dear friend feel the same way with you when you have to say goodbye again, but you still have each other in heart. So do the things you want to do, try...

4 May 12

Who Chose your Course?

edisonbanglos @edisonbanglos (389) • Philippines 4 May 12

Hello Mylotters, I want to hear your response about who really chose your course in college? They say that if you enroll in the course that was chosen by other people (perhaps your parents or friends) it will lead to mismatch..

choosing course

college

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xiaoqian19880825 hi, it's myself who chose all my courses in university. I chose what I like, and I enjoy them. However, sometimes I forced myself to take some courses I didn't like, just for the need of work in future. So chooose the thing you really like, it's the most...

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Do you enjoy your job/career? Are you passionate about the work you do?

dubbc3 @dubbc3 (125) • United States 23 Apr 12

Are you working to pay bills? Or do you work your current job because you enjoy what you do? A large percent of people hold jobs that they absolelutely dread. Do you have a job or a career? Have you obtained one or more college...

work

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xiaoqian19880825 My university graduation major is communication engineering, while now my master major is space detecting and information proceeding techinique. And what I am going to do when I graduate is software development. How wonderful! I love the change, because I can...

24 Apr 12

I drink more than 8 glass of water everyday

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 24 Apr 12

I usually drink 4 glass after a breakfast, then 4 glass in the afternoon and 4 glass in the evening before I went to sleep. Sometimes I drink 5 glass in between, I wonder will water makes us look bloated, coz I saw in youtube,...

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xiaoqian19880825 I can not agree more. When I sit at the desk before the computer, I always drink in the break. I think water can take away the toxin in our body.

24 Apr 12

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Got some new kicks an addidas bball shoes, no nba player wore it but is cool.

deodavid @deodavid (4150) • Philippines 20 Mar 12

Hi guys, Yep am just typing away, i got this new bball shoes and it looks great, it is not popular or anything but it looks really nice, even though no basketball player has used this in the NBA, the feel, the looks truly for...

cool

nba

shoes

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xiaoqian19880825 oh,cool, I have a pair of addidas shoes. The shoes are comfortable rather than pretty. I like them.

20 Mar 12

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