equalizer

@equalizer (65)

Philippines • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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I was advised not to Post but just Respond to earn more.

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

If I post I have to go back to them from time to time and make a comment which is time consuming. If I just concentrate on responding quality and lengthy discussions, I can make 100 of so responses a day which can be translated to...

posting and responding

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equalizer I was away for a long time and I'm thinking of finding ways to catch up in mylot. For the time being I try to answer as many discussions I can to improve my earnings.

23 Feb 07

MyLot is a waste of time!

InspirationStation @InspirationStation (188) • United States 27 Jan 07

Ok, I'm getting frustrated here. I spent like 5 hours writing yesterday and hardly anyone even responded to my posts nor to my responses to others' discussions. Not to mention the fact that I made a whopping 75 cents! Don't get...

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equalizer It says 54 after your name, don't you think you are expecting too much at this early stage. You still have to get into the full swing of things here in mylot. Just be a little patient. I am a newbie and I'm still trying hard to know how the system works and...

27 Jan 07

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Planning a Wedding.......Is it really that difficult?

SisterLove @SisterLove (304) • United States 26 Jan 07

Christmas 2006 my boyfriend asked me to marry him, of course I said yes. WOW, its a great feeling to have. Now the trouble is who,what,when,where,why and how. How do I get started, I mean there is to much to think about. Can...

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equalizer It's not an enormous job as it seems to be. Share it with friends and close relatives and sooner or later, you will see that they are doing most of the jobs and give you lots of suggestions. To start with there may some clues from the internet. For sure you...

27 Jan 07

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Harrassed about going to Church...

mzbubblie @mzbubblie (3839) • United States 26 Jan 07

This post is not intended to be disrespectful to anyone religion...or anyone beliefs, this is my own personal experience.... I have a neighbor that constantly on me about going to church and why I need to go, the goodness of it...

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equalizer Everytime she invites you, just smile. It doesn't take much of your time anyway. Later, whe will get the clue and maybe give up. Just exercise a little tolerance, you don't lose anything. It's not those things when people are asking for money or anything. It...

27 Jan 07

Most women who are showing off their cleavages

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

by wearing very low-cut necklines and wearing 10 inches above the knee skirts are "game" types. Is this a correct assumption? Most of my men friends think so.

cleavage

women

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equalizer No, I don't think so but one thing I am sure of is they are inviting trouble. Doing so because it is the fashion of the day is not reason enough, they must be extra careful and sensitive. If they walk alone at night in a desolate street they are very likely to...

27 Jan 07

Do you feel free in a country where there is democracy?

wasim989 @wasim989 (2298) • India 26 Jan 07

I live in India and I feel good that I am living in a free country but am I really free because deep down my heart I still feel that I am not free because we are still exploited by rich people and politicians which is only making...

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equalizer In a democracy, we are like flies trapped in a jar. We are told to fly anywhere and however we want and believe we are indeed free.

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How long should sleep?

tysyln @tysyln (70) • China 27 Jan 07

How long should sleep?

sleep

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equalizer The common belief is for adult people to at least have 8 hours of sleep, children even longer.

27 Jan 07

How will you deal with a neigbor who is a habitual borrower?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

There is a family who just moved in to our neighborhood and we wanted them to feel at home. As they settle down they need to borrow things saying they need it to start with since theirs is still in the trunk or haven't bought one...

habitual borrower

neighbor

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equalizer I will stop lending my stuff to him, unless it is something urgent, maybe borrow my car to take someone to the hospital. But for simple reasons like plates, garden hose, hammer, I will buy him a new one to embarrass him and hopefully teach him a lesson.

27 Jan 07

is "sorry" enough?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

I bought a new and expensive kind of electric drill. I haven't even taken it off from the box when my neighbor borrowed it saying it's just something urgent. So I lend it to him. After a few hours he returned it and said "I'm...

borrowing things

sorry

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equalizer That's terrible, I will tell him Im going to buy a new one and ask him to pay at least 50%, that's it. If I am in a bad mood I might even ask him for a replacement.

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License to Rape

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 27 Jan 07

I recently heard that a girl from a poor community was raped and then forced by her parents to marry the rapist himself and people supported them because their reason was who else will marry her now. I discussed this with elderly...

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equalizer Personally, this is very inhuman. The elders should be able to look at things better than this. There is no reason for our beliefs to get stuck in our old ways. Be open to change especially when it comes to human's dignity and honor. I pity the girl.

27 Jan 07

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People of Color/Women - Will Things or Can Things Be Equal?

kitchenwitchoftupper @kitchenwitchoftupper (2290) • United States 26 Jan 07

A few days ago someone started a discussion about Barak Obabma and was wondering if anyone thought it was possible for a man of color to actually make it to the White House (I wonder why they call it that?). It was and is my...

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equalizer Speaking of laws, rights and privileges I think people are equal but when it comes to attitudes, it will take a long long time, maybe another 2-3 generations before we see peoples attitudes change with regards to this issue. Blacks will always be what they are...

27 Jan 07

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if you just won a million dollars what is the FIRST thing that you would buy

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 26 Jan 07

like many others im sure i dream about winning the lottery and such, one day i sat and just thought what i would do if i actually ever won. My husbands first thought was nothing invest invest invest. and i looking at our current...

make extra money

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equalizer I will build my dreamhouse with swimming pool in it. Of course, my dream cars as well.

27 Jan 07

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Disappointments

emilieespino @emilieespino (963) • Philippines 26 Jan 07

Do you have any disappointments with a family member? Could you help me with mine? My disappointment is with my 28-year old son. He is one disorganized and confused individual and is such a mess, just as his room is always a...

children

family

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equalizer Some reasons why children fail is because they depend too much on their parents, they always have a fall back and they lack the initiative to make it on their own. Partly the parents are to take the blame. Over bearing and over caring. They should learn to...

27 Jan 07

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Too many toys

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 26 Jan 07

When do you decide your child has too many toys? I have had my aunt come over and say I need to get rid of half of them beacuse he has too many. He play with all of them though!. I have comments like this from differnt people, but...

too many toys

toys

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equalizer It's unbelievabe how much toys a child accumulate by the time he turns 7. My son's room is almost full toys, toys here, toys there, toys everywhere. One day we ask him to choose what toys he likes most and he wants to keep because we are going to donate some...

27 Jan 07

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" Stop Pointing Fingers To India " Enough Of It !!

jaizdeep @jaizdeep (397) • India 26 Jan 07

For the past few days i have been continuously observing that people are posting topics blaming either Indians or India.... Either its about them smelling bad , Girls being aborted by pregnant women, Indians spamming, playing...

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equalizer I notice that too and I can't believe people are saying that. Maybe some people are just doing it for discussion sake. They want to earn points at the expense of other people's feelings. That's too bad.

27 Jan 07

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