bieke81

@bieke81 (1067)

Belgium • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

If you have nothing nice to say, just say nothing at all.

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Ignored Once, Twice, Thrice... What Would You Do?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 22 Apr 11

Hi Lotters If you were responding to a lotters' discussion and found that all responses are commeneted / answered by the starter but not yours.... You keep on responding to some more from this lotter, still,...

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bieke81 I don't really care about getting an answer on my comment. I say what I have to say and if the thread starter wants to comment on that or go into a discussion, then that's fine and I'll get back to it, if not, I don't care either way. There are other things in...

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My daughter just got contacts..any advice?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 16 Apr 11

This past year my youngest daughter had to get glasses. She is the first of us so far that has had to have them so I am learning everything right along with her. I always have a ton of questions for the eye doctor and a ton of...

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bieke81 I always wanted contacts, but because I had a very bad eye infection as a kid, my eyes just can't handle it. It's a shame though, 'cause I hate wearing glasses, I've worn them since I'm 8 years old, and I'm 30 now. After 22 years, I still don't like...

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Is this really child abuse?

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 2 Sep 10

My youngest son, who is 5 years old, bites his nails. He has done so for over a year now and doesn't seem to be able to kick the habit even though I have threatened to paint his nails red haha. Both his elder brothers...

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bieke81 I have bitten on my nails until I was 18 or 19, I think. Now I only do it when I'm really stressed out. I wouldn't put anything on the nails of my kid if they were biting their nails, but I would tell them each time to not do it. On the other hand, I don't...

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Spending too much time on the computer....

Bellapop @Bellapop (1279) 17 Jul 10

Maybe I shouldn't really ask on here, but this is actually for my sister. She's 20 and taking some time out from uni, she was supposed to use the time to get more work experience, look for a job, or do something that would help...

computer internet addiction

depression university student computer games

experience

facebook

time wasted youth

too much time on computer

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bieke81 Guess I wouldn't be much of a help, seeing that I work online as internet marketeer. I'm always behind my computer during the day, and even after the kids have gone to bed. You have to remember that she is 20 years old and that she is legally an adult. You...

17 Jul 10

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Reading after reading...

camomile07 @camomile07 (1420) • Germany 13 Jun 10

Yesterday, I finished reading a book and today I started another one having still the last history in my mind. ...once you finish to read a book, do you start immediately to read another one? Or do you wait a time until you...

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bieke81 I can't NOT read, so yes, when I finished a book I'll start a new one when I have some more free time. It's even so bad right now I'm reading fanfiction on the internet. call me crazy LOL Have a great day

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Do you find it hard to go to sleep when it is hot

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 2 Jun 10

I have a problem trying to get to sleep when it is soo hot as i find it soo hard to get comfortable to begin with.All i seem to do is toss and turn and end up only getting a few hours sleep of a night time.

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bieke81 Same hear. When we have long periods of heat I always walk around like a zombie, just because I don't get enough sleep. Summer is close and I'm sure I'll have a period like that very soon. Have a great day

3 Jun 10

Frequency of Mylot usage

Tangeryne @Tangeryne (412) • India 23 May 10

Hey Mylotters, was just wondering how often do you use Mylot? Do you log on everyday? If so do you respond to and start discussions each day or is there a gap between your posts? Though I may log on everyday, some days I'm...

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bieke81 I check the homepage every day. If I find that there's a discussion I want to respond to, I will, if not, well no writing for me . Another thing I do every day is checking the tasks. Sometimes there's something I want to do and that gives a nice...

23 May 10

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what do you think of a single mother having a baby girl

homeshoppers @homeshoppers (6166) • Philippines 13 May 10

i just want to share my happiness right now, i just came from my ultra sound and im glad to see that my baby is fine inspite of all troubles and problem since her father left us. though i wanted to have a boy coz i was thinking...

baby girl

single mother

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bieke81 Whether it's a girl or a boy, your child will grow up as you teach it. If you teach her to be strong, and she doesn't need a man/partner to feel whole, she will take those lessons with her when she's older. I was raised by a single mother, and I came out...

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cross stitched anyone?

amelly @amelly (1554) • Malaysia 27 Apr 10

i really like to make cross stitch since i learned it when i was 12 years old. although i'm kind of young to like such thing, i think it is interesting because you have to really concentrate and put your effort to make it...

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bieke81 I've been doing cross stitch since I was about the same age you had when you started, 12 years old. i still love it, alhough I don't have much time, with two kids and my own business to take care of. But when I'm on vacation I will try to get something done....

28 Apr 10

Has myLot become mature?

kar295rocks @kar295rocks (2116) • India 20 Apr 10

Yes, I am all right and so is my question. Okay, I was just giving a glimpse throught the historical 1 digit posts of myLot and I was shocked to see that the posts were really immature. For example -...

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bieke81 The discussion you have found is nothing more then a way of getting backlinks to his own site. That's what a lot of people used Mylot for when it just started. Sometimes they still do, but now it's more supervised. So yes, I think Mylot has matured, but not...

21 Apr 10

do you have savings?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 19 Mar 10

I know that this question may sound rude or too personal but I'm just curious to know if you guys practice saving. I regret a little now since I'd been neglectful about this aspect of my life. I never knew the value of saving and...

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bieke81 I do have some savings, but they are all short term savings. Meaning, they are for bills that don't come monthly, but every three or six months, or every year. That means, off course, if there's an emergency I don't have savings for that, and right now I can't...

20 Mar 10

what was the last film you watched in a movie theater?

rizadel @eloveriz2004 (499) • Philippines 20 Mar 10

Are you an avid moviegoer? During my highschool days, I was interested to watch movies with my friends every weekend. I can't afford missing the latest and most talked about movies in town. As days rolled into years, I no longer...

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bieke81 Okay, so, don't start throwing things with my answer (I know lots of people will 'cause well, because of the movie it was LOL). The last movie I saw in theatre was New Moon. You know, the second Twilight movie. I'm a bit of a Twilight fan LOL [b]Have a...

20 Mar 10

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do you really make money?

BYOLA2871 @BYOLA2871 (4371) • South Africa 16 Mar 10

hi dear friends here on mylot.com i have read so much about making money online ,i believe this is possible but sometimes when you find yourself stuck it seems tis is rather impossible ,now my honest question is this ,is it really...

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bieke81 Yes, you can make a living online. how do I know, 'cause I'm doing it. Well, not exactly making a living, but my income is still growing every month. Is it easy? No, off course not. It's hard work and you need to treat it like you would treat a business off...

17 Mar 10

Do your kids have snack time in school?

Shar19 @Shar19 (8231) • United States 11 Mar 10

In my daughter's school which is an elementary school, the kids have a snack time that is probably about ten minutes each day. The snack time is either in the morning or afternoon, depending on what time the child has lunch and...

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bieke81 Here they have snack time too. My kids are still in kindergarden (we have three years of kindergarden before elementary school starts) and in those years they normally stop 10 minutes before break to eat their snacks. With the youngest all goes well, but the...

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My email address was stolen!

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 8 Mar 10

I send and receive cute email letters all of the time. There are people from work and people from church in my email mailbox as well as family. I got a call from a Deacon from Church today. The pastor was out of state on vacation...

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bieke81 those scammers stop for nothing. Lucky that they contacted you before they believed it, otherwise it would have been you they looked bad upon. Hope everything is cleaned now and this won't happen again to you. Have a great day

9 Mar 10

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Right for me, wrong for you

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 4 Mar 10

How do you make a decision that is so absolutely right for you, but so wrong and hurtful for somebody else in your life that you care about? Do you beat yourself up about it afterward? Or just do it and move on with your...

dawn

divorce

losing your best friend

stay together forever

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bieke81 This is a really difficult question and it depends on the situation, to be honest. I can only say that if it's right for me but wrong for someone else, in most cases I would see if the other option would be totally wrong for me and 'hurt' in me in some way. If...

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Do you add everyone who post replies to your discussion?

sether7 @sether7 (183) • Philippines 4 Mar 10

I only have less the 10 friends since I've just started last week. I just noticed that having friends helps you in increasing replies to your discussion so I'm planning to do this one to have more friends in the future. For my few...

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bieke81 I only added people who really add some value to a discussion, either in the start posts or in the comments. I don't think you have to add everyone, it 'cheapens' your friend list I think. Have a great day

5 Mar 10

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Why are you not blogging? Do you know that you can earn from your blogs?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (14078) • Philippines 21 Feb 10

How come you don't want to take on this new venture? More and more people are becoming aware of blogging. You can create a blog within 5-10 minutes and you could create it for free. After creating your blog you can earn from them....

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bieke81 I do blog to make money. To be more exact, I'm a professional niche blogger. That means I create blogs in certain niches and promote ebooks and products through my site which I receive commission for. It's great, I'm my own boss and I get to be home with the...

3 Mar 10

Advice please???

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 16 Dec 09

So I actually am looking for adivce on two different things going on between my boyfriend and I. The first advice I need help with is do you think its okay for my boyfriend to call another woman sexy? On Facebook (of course,...

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bieke81 I can look at it from my own situation and my husband and I, well, we look at people together. Like when we're out on the street and see a pretty girl, I can be like: hey honey, you didn't look, and she was sexy, you missed out. And he's the same when we see a...

17 Dec 09

What did she ever see in him? Why did she marry him?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 16 Dec 09

I couldnt sleep last night, and got to thinking of a remark I overheard."What on earth did she see in him? She is so pretty and she married that plain looking guy? Why, she could have had anyone so I c annot understand her...

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bieke81 I think only shallow people will make remarks like that. It's not the outside beauty that counts, it's how we are inside that makes us beautiful. For example, my husband, he isn't really the most handsome guy around, but he's funny, loving and caring, and it...

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